michelle danielle. 18.
vanessainthesky-withdiamonds asked: Nice essay. You obviously have too much time on your hands. All your points could be avoided if you just read what I said like a literate person without jumping to the defense. Basically don't get pregnant (have unprotected sex) unless you're ready to deal the the possibility that you might get pregnant and have a baby. I discount rape, medical threat to mother or baby and severe disability. This is my opinion and I didn't ask for your analysis.
I literally have no idea who you are or what post you’re reffering to which means it was at least a week ago, please reference your post so I know what the hell you’re talking about.
To what you said in this ask however? ‘do’t get pregnant’ is not as easy as you’re trying to make it out to be. And people get pregnant all the fucking time having protected sex, in fact 54% of people getting abortions used protection, so you can’t go on about how ‘Don’t have unprotected sex if you don’t wanna get pregnant’ because more than half of the people who are unexpectedly pregnant were using protection.
Additionally it takes literally nothing to have sex. You stick part A into part B and have fun. Literally all you have to do.
Caring for a pregnancy, however, requires time, money, special food, self control, understanding limit’s, physical and mental well being and more.
Caring for a child requires time, money, new foods, lack of sleep, time off school and work, putting your self care second, going beyond all your limits, physical and mental well being and consistently putting your child before you.
Not everyone is ready to, can, or wants to do that. Are you saying that anyone who doesn’t every want children should never have sex? I hear most people enjoy sex quite a bit so good luck policing 7 billion peoples sex lives when that’s literally none of your business.
You discounted rape because you actually don’t give a shit about the fetus or the parent. You’re entire opinion is ‘You had consensual sex and got pregnant? You deserve to be punished’. What makes a feteus from rape different from a fetus from consensual sex? Nothing really other than meathod of conception, though your determination to treat the two people seeking the same procedure so diferently gives you away.
You’re not doing this because you care about anyone. You just think anyone who has sex you don’t approve of deserves to have their most basic human right stripped away.
And on my days off generally I do have a lot of time on my hands, especially recently as I’m on medical leave and have been for several weeks.
Now then, you also tagged you extremely harmful opinion (And it is extremely harmful whether you mean it to be or not) in a PUBLIC FORUM into a HOTLY DEBATED TOPIC. That immediately gives ANYONE the right to comment, analise or refute your statements and point out the flaws in your argument. If you don’t like that then don’t tag your harmful opinions into a hotly debated topic, you do not get to complain about a single thing here.
So, is that literate enough for you? Or am I talking to a wall?